It was Friday night, a little over a week ago. I was up in Garden Valley with a bunch of girl friends. Damie was home with the kids. The phone rang. Damie's mom had a stroke. It was very unexpected. She's only 55. They didn't tell us how bad it was, or how quickly we needed to get there. I returned home Saturday afternoon. I spent that night packing and we left immediately after church on Sunday.
It is hard packing for a family of five, especially when you have no idea what you will be doing or how long you'll be gone. Normally I would spend a week preparing and planning for a long road trip. But this time, I only had a few hours.
It took us over eleven hours to get to Billings, Montana. We went straight to the hospital. Damie went in alone. It was the middle of the night and the kids were asleep. He came out 45 minutes later, visibly shaken. Judy was disoriented and agitated, and had a very difficult time communicating.
The doctors and nurses and case workers were unhelpful. They gave us very little information, and the info we did get seemed to differ from day to day. We did find out that the stroke was huge. But mostly we just waited and waited. There were times when Judy could barely speak and didn't recognize us. Other times, she was alert and able to communicate relatively well, although her words were jumbled. She came alive when the kids were there. It was the first time she met Eva.
We tried to make the trip as fun as possible for the kids. They did incredible considering the hours we spent in the car and in the hospital. We were able to stay with Damie's aunt and uncle (on his Dad's side), who lived 15 minutes from the hospital. Their house was very comfortable and fun for the kids. And the kids fell in love with their Aunt and Uncle. I can't believe I didn't get any pictures at their house!
Damie's brother, Dason, drove up from Boise too, with his wife, Tess, and daughter, Ashley. It was a blessing to have them there with us!
One very cool thing about Montana is the wildlife. Even in the middle of the city, it is not uncommon to see deer and antelope. We saw this antelope next to a fairly busy road not far from where we stayed.
Damie has another Aunt and Uncle that live about an hour outside of Billings. They invited us over one morning for breakfast. Ashley accompanied us while Dason & Tess stayed at the hospital. The kids got to ride their horses and play with their chickens.
By Thursday, we were getting nowhere with the doctors and were frustrated. Judy has no family in the area. She lives with her mom in Two Dot, Mt, about 100 miles from Billings. On Thursday we drove to Two Dot to pick up Damie's grandma and move her out. We drove her another 170 miles away to live with one of her other daughters.
Here are some pictures of the kids and I going for a walk while Damie packed up his grandma.
Damie's mom and aunt are both eccentric artists. You can see from his Aunt's house where Damie gets his love for bright, vivid colors. This is where we moved his grandma.
We didn't stay long here as it was already getting late and we wanted to make it to West Yellowstone that night. Other than our short walk in Two Dot, we were in the car that day for over ten hours.
We are still waiting to see if Judy will improve. Dason stayed an extra day and said she was doing better. We are working hard to get Judy moved to a hospital in Boise.